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Sending dirty talk texts is really good for building sexual tension. And, as you know, sexual tension is crucial if you want to experience explosive orgasms. For example, Lisa Welsh might not say these naughty phrases, but if I had an alter ego, she’d have no problem letting these dirty words slip from her mouth. Thus, role play might just be the thing that helps you let go and really start playing with sexy words and phrases. Before we jump to the good stuff, let’s first discuss why dirty talking is such a powerful tool for arousal and sex.

• Mostly men are drawn to a women who aren’t afraid to express themselves sexually.
• One very important point to keep in mind when sending your man a dirty text message is that it’s often better to send him a message that is short and isn’t asking for a reply.
• The easiest way to freestyle effective dirty talk is expressing what you like, what you want, and how turned on you are.
• It’s more about speaking confidently without hesitance or shame.
• The brain is considered a more powerful sexual organ than our genitalia because it’s where the sex drive steams from.

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You need to captivate her attention and replace whatever else is happening in her head with a stronger, sexier signal. If you do, those juices will start to flow and she’ll be way more receptive to getting intimate. Most people feel completely embarrassed and ridiculous at the thought of trying it, because they’ve never been taught the basic guidelines.

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I have worked with literally thousands of men at this point, and I’ve heard some version of these points from all of them. At first, the simple act of opening your mouth and letting these words fall out can feel like standing on the edge of a cliff. Other people like being called “you whore” while others prefer “my whore” while others still would never want you to call them anything close to the word whore during any of your lovemaking, ever. Any statement about what you have enjoyed doing with them in the past, or that you are envisioning doing with them in the future, is a great way to ease into a more vocal sex session. A comment like that will probably push them over the edge and have them pouncing on you. It can take a little more time to get a woman’s water boiling, so to speak, whereas a guy’s can go from Lake Placid to full-on tsunami in a matter of seconds.

• And when in doubt, you can always just narrate what’s happening in the moment, Cordingley says.
• It’s not always what you say to him to turn him on, but how you say it that makes all the difference.
• When you’re thinking of dirty questions to ask a guy, they don’t have to just be about making him horny for you.
• Grab your Fifty Shades of Grey book, put on your glasses, and read.
• “If she likes a guy in tight jeans, you wear tight jeans.”

In order to save audiobooks to your Wish List you must be signed in to your account. Depending on what stage of your relationship, you will probably have different level of comfort and ideas on how this things works. Daryl Cioffi, specializing in couples, relationships, sex, neuropsychology, and owner of Polaris Counseling & Consulting in Patucket, R.I. According to one study published in the journal Hormone Research. There are two area in hypothalamus, the preoptic area (involved in mating area) and the superchiasmatic nucleus.

Still playing into the curiosity aspect, this question will get his mind thinking of past hookups and will get him in a horny mood. We all have fantasies, but not everyone talks about them. Tell him about one of your favorite fantasies, and tell him that you want him to make it a reality for you. Okay, not a real affair, just a pretend affair. You could even combine this with role play and pretend you don’t know each other when you are out in public. Talking dirty to a guy is not easy for a lot of girls.