Sex is on your mind. Whether you just met someone or not, how long should you wait before you have sex? There are a lot of things to consider.

Sex is a big deal for some, but not so much so for others. And you are 100% entitled to your opinions and feelings. But how long should you wait before you have sex?

Many people wonder how long to wait before sex and it’s a long-debated subject. The truth? It’s a totally personal thing that you can only answer for yourself.

Yet, sadly there is still quite a bit of judgment that goes into having sex too soon or even waiting too long.

Society has made it its mission to shame women no matter their decisions about sex, but that should not impact your choice. You have to do what sits right with you and your partner. [Read: How to have safe sex in every single way it is possible to]

What does having sex mean?

In regards to dating, sex can mean that you are exclusive or you hope you are. Unfortunately, it can also mean you’re too easy in someone’s eyes. Just as not having sex can mean that you’re a prude.

Although those assumptions are archaic and quite a bit sexist, they do exist. And even if a man doesn’t judge you whenever you decide to have sex, how you feel about it matters. Maybe you have sex and break up down the line. Read more